Disconnect as the New Standard

The disconnect between what people know about how the Internet (and by extension social media) “works” (choices, behaviors, options, etc.) and what people use the Internet (and social media) to accomplish (tasks) is underrated and massive. Part of the disconnect comes from a lack of interest and caring about how Read more…

When You Won’t Need Validation

Recognizing that you once held a belief and that now this belief is changing, is the essence of learning. And by the time you attain that essence, you won’t need the extrinsic validation from an “A” letter grade, a raise, a promotion, or any other validation that you believe extrinsically Read more…

Core Emotional Alchemy

Do you care? This is the binary core question that we avoid asking out loud, or ask each other in unclear, murky, nonverbal ways, or just don’t ask at all. This is the right question to ask before thinking of strategies to engage in the practice of emotional alchemy. The Read more…

HIT Piece 9.6.2016

Every day of the week, the month, and the year, is Labor Day when you’re in conflict. Conflict with family, friends, enemies, co-workers; the bandwidth to actually deal with each scenario and relationship in a healthy way, diminishes with each passing moment. But then, sometimes, through mixing and applying a Read more…